_______ withheld approval, appreciation or affection as punishment?

_______ continually criticized you, called you names or shouted at you?

_______ ignored your feelings?

_______ ridiculed or insulted your most valued beliefs, religion, race, class or sexual preference?

_______ been very jealous or harassed you about imagined affairs?

_______ manipulated you with lies and contradictions?

_______ insisted you dress the way she/he wants?

_______ humiliated you in private or public?

_______ insulted or drove away your friends or family?

_______ taken car keys or money away from you?

_______ subjected you to reckless driving?

_______ locked you out of the house?

_______ thrown objects at you?

_______ abused pets to hurt you?

_______ punched, shoved, slapped, bit, kicked, choked or hit you?

_______ raped you?

_______ threatened to kidnap the children if you leave?

_______ threatened to commit suicide if you leave?